Why do some men wonder why their companions, whom they pay large sums of money to give them the times of their lives, don’t deliver? I invite you, especially if you are one of these types, to discover the simple answers by continuing to read this entry.
There will always be men who will go into their special moments of life with a giving attitude and there’ll always be ones who will go into them with the opposite attitude. These types will operate under the mantra “I’m paying money, so it’s your job to entertain me.” But how do they expect to be given all the genuine human connection, warmth, and smile they crave if they’re not prepared to give the same? receptive to nonverbal communication – even if they don’t tell you! If you convey a positive message through your words but a negative or hesitant one with the rest of your physiology, the physiology will always be the message another person will accept as true. You would as well if you were to be on the receiving end of something similar. So how does your communication contribute to your total quality of your life’s special moments?
The answer is: very much! If someone is telling us BS, we know, just as well as we know if someone’s telling us the truth. Every time we communicate, we release subtle [and invisible] energies into the ether. So be careful about what energy you eminate, because you’ll be getting the same back.
Some real life examples of this are: if you’re sitting in a bar / pub and having a good chat with another person, you know if the conversation is “landing” well with your partner – and you also know when you have an inflexible communicator! How do you know? Intuitively – from your partner’s nonverbal [first, and then verbal] responses. So if you’re planning to sail through your intimate moments with the attitude of “I’m paying money, therefore I can just lie here”, your partner will get the message of demotivation and/or indifference and will most likely get put off and end up acting the same or similarly.
The principle is not complicated, yet there’re many [mostly generally unhappy] individuals who don’t grasp it. By the way, has it ever occurred to them – or you – why they are generally unhappy? Because they come across this indifferent attitude from those around them all the time. But with the most insidious appendix = not realizing that they’re its source! Also, taking is nice, but giving is even nicer. If we take all the time, we’ll end up with heaps of stuff, yet emptiness at heart, because the heaped-up material will lose its value almost as soon as we’ve brought it home and we’ll put it aside and start searching for the next taking… But we’ll never run away from the emptiness at heart. The only way to break the circle and get filled up is by giving some of ourselves to others.
If you do something nice, you’ll naturally feel more loving toward the world around you. Then the virtuous circle will begin – others will start accepting and loving you too, conversations and nonverbal [even intimate] communications of every kind will start flowing and so will your happiness start flooding your body and heart. And you’ll never have a dull encounter again!
So, start giving – and you’ll start receiving!
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