The obvious benefits of the beautiful art and science of massage are all over the internet. Benefits of massage not obvious to men who replace the meaning of massage with sex are here.

The first of the benefits of massage which sex will never replace

is that massage is an excellent tool for grounding.  Grounding is being down to earth - literally rather than figuratively.  We operate best when we are connected to the earth = grounded.  Most of us know the feeling of being ungrounded. It's when we have a thousand things rushing through the head at once - overwhelm.  If we move focus to the belly, that busyness goes away.  And if we move focus to the feet and from there into the ground, we will be even calmer and more stable.  Grounding is natural.  People who do sports all find grounding essential albeit many call grounding different names. One name is is centering. Another is earthing.

Massage is human touch. Human touch is very grounding, which is why many people fall asleep or into deep relaxing trance during a well done massage. When people are ungrounded, they often feel scatty, disorganized, fidgety, unsettled, uncomfortable in their bodies.  They can't concentrate on anything and then feel guilty for wasting precious time, but powerless to do anything about it.  Some people cope by comfort eating, others by drinking gallons of coffee or alcohol, smoking, biting nails, getting high, or other ways to escape.  But all these ways have consequences for health, productivity, earning (potential), happiness, sexappeal. Regular massage beautifully grounds and provides a relaxing escape. Its only positive consequences are another one of the not obvious benefits of massage!

Why do many men have gray hair?

Because one cause of gray hair is a tense scalp from stress.  Regular head massage loosens tension of the scalp. Blood then circulates freely and brings nutrients into the roots of hair.  Hair stays strong instead of withering and turning gray or falling out before its time.  So regular head massage is also beneficial for delay of baldness. Healthy hair gives a man sexappeal.

Do allergies make your working life hell during the sunniest of days?

Regular massage with the right essential oils can be very helpful for preventing allergic reactions such as hay fever, because the oils absorb into the blood stream and counteract the allergic response. Of course, allergies are the result of eating foods unsuitable for one's dosha. Determining your dosha is therefore well worth the time and energy it takes. I can help every man to do so. Once you know your dosha, I can give you a chart of foods that are suitable and not suitable for your dosha. Allergies are also the result of the immune system having made a mistake of strongly reacting to something not dangerous in stress. NLP coaching works with allergies.

Do you have trouble sexually satisfying women?

Regular massage can be a major factor in improving your sexual performance.  A lot of energy gets trapped in the reproductive organs.  Massage improves circulation and releases the blocks.  Certain essential oils also strengthen the reproductive organs and thus improve their smooth operation.  What a benefit! I can also teach any man a massage that restores erectile function!

Massage has even more benefits

and other articles in which I've written about them are:

1. why a real well done massage has far greater benefits than commercial sex
2. benefits of massage by an independent masseuse versus at a massage clinic

Intrigued? Inspired? Hopefully yes. And even if not, I invite you to start a conversation.