Men who seek deep connection go online. They’re willing to spend years of time, money, energy on finding it. But when one out of a million women finally offers the opportunity to create a deep connection, many men don’t want it. How is this contradiction possible? Read More
How to get intimacy into marriage? This will interest all married or partnered men who haven’t been intimate with their dear wives or partners for years and don’t know how to bring intimacy into the marriage or partnership again even if they dearly love the ladies of their lives. Married men who most likely “solve” the problem by paying a lot of time, money, and energy to prostitutes who don’t give them intimacy either while the men could pay that time, money, and energy to rekindling the magic with the loves of their lives. The intimately frustrated married man for long years knows well that the adult industry doesn’t solve his problem and may even have learnt this fact the hard way before he came to my website! Read More
Why doesn’t the adult industry fulfil its role in the society? How is it possible that the adult industry which turns billions a year worldwide leaves so much sexual deprivation, violence, and harassment worldwide? How can it be that men seem to be more deprived of sex than ever at the time of the biggest adult industry it has ever been and at the age of extreme sexual liberation? Or has it always been the case, but we now hear more of it? This paradox doesn’t make sense… Or does it if we look closer? Read More
There are men who see my three roles of a companion, massage therapist, and coach as conflicting or contradicting instead of a holistic package. But these men don’t look beneath the surface. Here’s why these roles are absolutely not conflicting and happily cohabit in a beautiful package which holistically looks after the professional man working in the corporate world or business. Read More
Why is the value of coaching for men who visit adult entertainers so high? And why is it impossible to quantify by a precise figure? Because it is intangible, yet so very tangible in these men’s lives! As value is intangible, it is not easy to grasp. But I’ll do my best to help you do so here… Read More
Men who see courtesans usually expect to be intimate with them. Yet why do 99% of men call for intimacy when they have broken up with partners, are frustrated, despondent, or angry with a circumstance? Read More
The society will continue to go digital. People buy even human connection digitally nowadays. And will continue to do so even more. But isn’t it ironic? That people want to connect with another human being, yet don’t even want to talk to her before they buy her? Here’s why I’ll always want to do things soul to soul. Why I don’t communicate with strangers by text messages. Read More
Conversations are at the centre of a man’s satisfaction on a date with a companion. They are also at the centre of satisfying massage if men want regular massages. And they are intimacy. But how many men and women who allegedly buy and sell connection and intimacy have conversations? Why are conversations important for both parties? Read More
Why I charge what I charge is a frequent question. And I’ll also tell you why my rates are excellent value because there will always be men who don’t see the value. Of course, in a world where everything is so expensive and prices rise we all want the best for the least. That’s human nature. When someone objects to one’s rates, the lazy way – usually driven by fear of losing them – is to discount. Another reason is that most people don’t know their value and thus don’t know how to justify their value to an objecting person. I know both. Hence here’s why I charge what I charge and why my rates are excellent value.
Time, money, and energy are our most valuable resources. I have written how men can always have enough money for their pleasures. So doesn’t it make sense to enrich the subject by writing about how men can always have enough time for their pleasures?
Discretion: every man who sees companions, courtesans, or has a mistress wants it. Even men who go for genuine medical massages want discretion! And many women promise it. But how does discretion reflect itself in the little details that men and women play out in daily lives and communications? Are people really as discreet as they think they are? What innocent acts can easily betray discretion? You may well be surprised at what useful pearls you will pick up from this article.
In this article I’ll tell you why so many people use the word mature outdatedly when they relate it purely to age. Especially in the context of sorting companions, courtesans, models, escorts, etc. by age. And why its outdated usage is conventionalized so deeply that nobody questions it when surfing the net for a companion or a woman in another role. So if you’re now curious and want to be more mature about being mature, … Read More
Reviews used to be good – when people started posting them. And they still can be good – in some industries. But not in that of high end companionship. Hence why should men not waste time with reading reviews of elite companions? And definitely not of me? Read More
One of the most frequent objections I hear is that men don’t have enough money to see their companions courtesans, mistresses, as often as they’d like – or can’t afford pleasures at all. But this is not an insurmountable problem. And here is how to surmount it. Read More
It might sound far fetched on first hearing. But it’s definitely true – and would make many a woman cringe. Having a companion or mistress is healthy for a man. Here’s why. Read More
One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who call or write to me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely capsize because of their unrealistic expectations. The light bringer doesn’t take people’s money and turn it into bad memories! Here are the most common unrealistic expectations that men have. I share them so that if you have them you can work them out before hiring your next companion or another type of woman. [Yes, in today’s world one must certainly be clean about the role for which he looks. Hence I stress the difference between a companion and another type of woman.]. Read More
If you regularly exercise – especially in busy gyms – in 3 sets of 12, 15, or 20 repetitions of exercises, you’ll be familiar with your brain going off course while the body goes through the sequences. Somewhere you suddenly realize that you’ve lost count and are in a quandary about whether you’re on the second or third set! How can you solidly concentrate to prevent that? Read More
Have you ever noticed that you immediately respect some people while you do not respect others in a lifetime? Do you know people who say that they will do something but never do it? And do you say that you’ll do something while you have no intention of doing it? Or do you often say things out of politeness, but never mean them? Read More
Be inspired by reading this if you live in the northern hemisphere. I say this, because while enjoying the height of summer in the southern one, people have no reason to even dream of issues that this article discusses! This article also won’t interest you if you’re so motivated to achieve your new year’s resolutions that nothing will distract you on the way. But if you’re one of those people whose motivation has plenty of room for strengthening, read on too. Read More
To break bad habits is not merely a matter of knowledge or skill. If it was, then all information campaigns on how to improve health would have made illnesses a thing of the past. We would all be slim and rich and teenage girls would not get pregnant. Sadly, many people do not create lasting changes and repeat their failures again and again.Why? How? Read More
Intimate relationships can be a source of the greatest joy or pain. Valentine’s Day was established by papal decree in 496AD as a day to celebrate our intimate relationships with those we love most deeply. At that time it wasn’t connected with romantic love. Geoffrey Chaucer changed that in the high Middle Ages during the time of development of courtly love as a tradition. Since that time we see Valentine’s Day as a shorthand for what intimate relationships or marriage should look like. Starry-eyed, blissful, sweet, easy, sexual, and everloving might describe our expectations of intimate relationships. But like most things in life, when we truly take a look, we see much more complexity…
Why do so many men buy sex? Why do so many even very young men not have success in matters of intimacy? And why do many successful and even happily married men not know how to be intimate? Read More
Your life energy is another resource with which you vote every minute. How do you vote with your energy? What do you want in life? Also, what are your highest values? Is having the right people around you important? Hence how often do you do what it takes to have the right people around you? Is connection your high value? How often do you therefore choose to connect with others? Read More
Money, men, courtesans… You vote with each coin that you spend. Spending money is as much a political act as, or even more so than, casting your vote on an election day. Every time you buy a product or service you help an individual or a corporation to stay in business. Your vote says that you want the product or service to exist in the world. So what implications does this have on your choice of spending your notes and coins on companions and other entertainment? Read More
Time is the most precious resource as it cannot be replaced. You‘re making choices every minute of your time on this planet. Think of the options of saying yes or no to (s)exercise. By saying yes to one activity you say no to a million others. Yet many men make wasteful choices with their time. But unfortunately these men don’t see that it is the wastefulness that often frustrates them. How can any man start using time more wisely? Read More
Being passive in intimacy when you pay for it is a bad idea. Why? And why do some men wonder why the women whom they pay don’t deliver quality intimacy either? I invite you to discover the answers. Read More