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Why the Adult Industry Doesn’t Fulfil Its Role in the Society

Why doesn’t the adult industry fulfil its role in the society? How is it possible that the adult industry which turns billions a year worldwide leaves so much sexual deprivation, violence, and harassment worldwide? How can it be that men seem to be more deprived of sex than ever at the time of the biggest adult industry it has ever been and at the age of extreme sexual liberation? Or has it always been the case, but we now hear more of it? This paradox doesn’t make sense… Or does it if we look closer? Read More

Do My Roles As a Companion, Massage and Aromatherapist, and Men’s Coach Conflict?

There are men who see my three roles of a companion, massage therapist, and coach as conflicting or contradicting instead of a holistic package. But these men don’t look beneath the surface. Here’s why these roles are absolutely not conflicting and happily cohabit in a beautiful package which holistically looks after the professional man working in the corporate world or business. Read More

The Value of Coaching for Men Who Visit Adult Entertainers

August 1, 2022  |  Coaching for Men

Why is the value of coaching for men who visit adult entertainers so high? And why is it impossible to quantify by a precise figure? Because it is intangible, yet so very tangible in these men’s lives! As value is intangible, it is not easy to grasp. But I’ll do my best to help you do so here… Read More

See Courtesans for Celebration, Not Out of Desperation

February 1, 2022  |  Coaching for Men

Men who see courtesans usually expect to be intimate with them. Yet why do 99% of men call for intimacy when they have broken up with partners, are frustrated, despondent, or angry with a circumstance? Read More

Why I Do Not Communicate With Strangers by Text Messages

The society will continue to go digital. People buy even human connection digitally nowadays. And will continue to do so even more. But isn’t it ironic? That people want to connect with another human being, yet don’t even want to talk to her before they buy her? Here’s why I’ll always want to do things soul to soul. Why I don’t communicate with strangers by text messages. Read More

Why Conversations With Your Companion or Masseuse Are Important

Conversations are at the centre of a man’s satisfaction on a date with a companion. They are also at the centre of satisfying massage if men want regular massages. And they are intimacy. But how many men and women who allegedly buy and sell connection and intimacy have conversations? Why are conversations important for both parties? Read More

Why I Charge the Rates I Charge and Why They Are Excellent Value

Why I charge what I charge is a frequent question. And I’ll also tell you why my rates are excellent value because there will always be men who don’t see the value. Of course, in a world where everything is so expensive and prices rise we all want the best for the least. That’s human nature. When someone objects to one’s rates, the lazy way – usually driven by fear of losing them – is to discount. Another reason is that most people don’t know their value and thus don’t know how to justify their value to an objecting person. I know both. Hence here’s why I charge what I charge and why my rates are excellent value.

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How Can Men Always Have Enough Time for Pleasures?

May 1, 2020  |  Coaching for Men

Time, money, and energy are our most valuable resources. I have written how men can always have enough money for their pleasures. So doesn’t it make sense to enrich the subject by writing about how men can always have enough time for their pleasures?

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Discretion: every man who sees companions, courtesans, or has a mistress wants it. Even men who go for genuine medical massages want discretion! And many women promise it. But how does discretion reflect itself in the little details that men and women play out in daily lives and communications? Are people really as discreet as they think they are? What innocent acts can easily betray discretion? You may well be surprised at what useful pearls you will pick up from this article.

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Mature Too Early?

In this article I’ll tell you why so many people use the word mature outdatedly when they relate it purely to age. Especially in the context of sorting companions, courtesans, models, escorts, etc. by age. And why its outdated usage is conventionalized so deeply that nobody questions it when surfing the net for a companion or a woman in another role. So if you’re now curious and want to be more mature about being mature, … Read More

Why Men Shouldn’t Take Reviews Seriously and I Don’t Allow Them

Reviews used to be good – when people started posting them. And they still can be good – in some industries. But not in that of high end companionship. Hence why should men not waste time with reading reviews of elite companions? And definitely not of me? Read More

How Can Men Always Have Enough Money for Pleasures?

August 1, 2018  |  Coaching for Men

One of the most frequent objections I hear is that men don’t have enough money to see their companions courtesans, mistresses, as often as they’d like – or can’t afford pleasures at all. But this is not an insurmountable problem. And here is how to surmount it. Read More

Why Having a Companion or Mistress is Healthy for a Man

May 1, 2018  |  Coaching for Men

It might sound far fetched on first hearing. But it’s definitely true – and would make many a woman cringe. Having a companion or mistress is healthy for a man. Here’s why. Read More

To All the Men Who Hate Paying for Companionship

February 1, 2017  |  Coaching for Men

Most men want to spend their finer moments with intelligent, smart, sophisticated companions with perfect bodies, flawless manners, immaculate presentation, and integrity. But they wince at the prospect of paying for the privilege. They argue that paying for companionship makes them feel uncomfortable. Well, most men don’t know how else they could think about paying for companionship. This article will show you why paying for companionship can be rewarding. Read More

The Dangers of Unrealistic Expectations

November 1, 2015  |  Coaching for Men

One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who approach me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely capsize because of their unrealistic expectations. Here are the most common unrealistic expectations that men have. I share them so that if you have them you can work them out before hiring your next companion or “escort”. [Yes, in today’s world these two words certainly have a different meaning. Hence escort is in inverted commas.]. Read More

A Tip for Guys Who Exercise

If you regularly exercise – especially in busy gyms – in 3 sets of 12, 15, or 20 exercises, you’ll be familiar with your brain going off course while the body is going through the sequence. Somewhere you suddenly realize that you’ve lost count and are in a quandary about whether you’re on the second or third set! How can you prevent this? How can you concentrate solidly? Read More

Respect = Do What You Say

August 1, 2014  |  Coaching for Men

Have you ever noticed that some people have your immediate respect while others do not? And have you observed that some people have great ideas but nothing happens with them? Do you know people who say they will do something but never do it? Do you say that you’ll do something while you have no intention of doing it? Or do you often say that you’ll do things out of politeness, but know that you never will do them? Read More

New Year’s Resolutions From 1 February?

February 1, 2014  |  Coaching for Men

Be inspired by reading on if you live in the northern hemisphere. I say this, because while enjoying the height of summer in the southern one, people have no reason to even dream of issues that this article discusses! This article also won’t interest you if you’re so motivated to achieve your new year’s resolutions that nothing will distract you on the way. But if you’re one of those people whose motivation has plenty of room for strengthening, read on too. Read More

Tried or Trying to Break Bad Habits?

November 1, 2013  |  Coaching for Men

Change of habits is not merely a matter of knowledge or skill. If that was true, then all information campaigns on how to improve your health would have made behaviour-related illnesses a thing of the past. We would all be slim and rich and teenage girls would not get pregnant. Sadly, many people fail to create lasting changes in their behaviours and repeat their failures again and again… Read More

When Intimate Relationships Don’t Work…

August 1, 2013  |  Coaching for Men

Valentine’s Day was established by papal decree in 496AD as a day to celebrate our intimate relationships with those we love most deeply. At that time it wasn’t connected with romantic love. In the high Middle Ages during the time of development of courtly love as a tradition Geoffrey Chaucer changed that. Since that time we see Valentine’s Day as a shorthand for what an intimate relationship or marriage should look like. Starry-eyed, blissful, sweet, easy, sexual, and everloving might describe our expectations of intimate relationships. But like most things in life, when we truly take a look, we see much more complexity…

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Why Many Men Don’t Fully Enjoy Intimacy

May 1, 2012  |  Coaching for Men

Have you ever wondered why you seem to have no success in matters of intimacy? Why your moments of intimacy are empty of the connection they’re supposed to physicalize? Or why you’re often in moments of intimacy with the body, but not with the mind? Read More


August 1, 2009  |  Coaching for Men

How are you voting with your energy? What do you want in life? Also, what are your highest values? Is having the right people around you important to you? Hence how often do you do what it takes to cultivate having the right people around you? Is connection a high value of yours? How often do you therefore choose to connect with others? Read More


May 1, 2009  |  Coaching for Men

With each coin of money you spend you’re voting. Spending money is as much a political act as, or even more so than, casting your vote on an election day. Every time you buy a product or service you’re helping an individual or a corporation to stay in business. Your vote says that you want the product or service to exist in the world. So what implications does this have on your choice of spending your notes and coins on companions and other entertainment? Read More


February 1, 2009  |  Coaching for Men

Every minute of your time on this planet you‘re making choices. Think of the options of saying yes or no to (s)exercise. By saying yes to one activity you’re saying no to a million others. Yet many men make choices with their time that prove wasteful. But unfortunately these men don’t see that it is the wastefulness that often frustrates them. How can any man start using time more wisely? Read More

Passive in Intimacy?

November 1, 2008  |  Coaching for Men

Do you prefer to be passive in intimacy? And why do some men wonder why their intimate partners don’t deliver quality intimacy either? I invite you to discover the answers. Read More

Successful, But Intimately Frustrated?

May 1, 2008  |  Coaching for Men
Being intimately frustrated is certainly not an accident. It happens because some things that men do and don’t do make it so. A man may think that the reason why he is intimately frustrated is rather straightforward. But in most cases it is not. Intimate frustration accumulates due to a combination of factors. And one can certainly influence a lot of them. So how can intimately frustrated men get integrated, at one with themselves, all of a piece, body and mind in agreement? How can they get congruent to start attracting intimate fulfilment? Here’re some handy tips:

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