It might sound a bit far fetched on first hearing, but it’s definitely true. Here’s why: Continue reading “Why Having a Companion, Mistress, or Paramour is Healthy for You” »
One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who approach me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely end in a disaster because of the man’s unrealistic expectations. Here I list the most common unrealistic expectations that I’ve come across so that if you have them you can work them out before hiring your next companion or escort [yes, I use these two words separately because in today’s world there is a difference in their meaning]. Continue reading “The Dangers of Unrealistic Expectations” »
If you regularly exercise in the style of 3 sets of 12, 15, or 20 exercises, you’ll be familiar with your brain going off course while your body is going through the motions of the 3 sets just as it got into the flow / rhythm of the exercise sequence. Somewhere around halfway you suddenly realise that you’ve lost count and are now in a quandary about whether you’re on the 2nd or 3rd set – let alone which repetition you’re just doing at the time of having realised that you’ve lost count! How can you prevent this? Continue reading “A Tip for Guys Who Exercise” »
Have you ever noticed that some people keep on succeeding while others have great ideas but nothing happens with them in the end? Do you know people who SAY they will do something but never do it? Do YOU do this? Continue reading “Why Choosing Words Carefully Will Earn You Respect” »
Be inspired by reading on if you live in the northern hemisphere, because in the southern one, while enjoying the height of summer, people have absolutely no reason to even dream of issues this article will discuss! The point of this article also won’t apply to you if you’re so motivated to reach whatever goal you set that nothing will distract you on the way. But if you’re of those people whose motivation has plenty of room for strengthening, read on too. Continue reading “Why 1 February Is a Better Time to Start on New Year’s Resolutions” »
Behavior change is not merely a matter of knowledge or skill. If that were true, then all the information campaigns on how to improve your health would have made behavior-related illnesses a thing of the past. And birth control information would prevent teen pregnancies. Sadly, many people fail to create lasting changes in their behaviors and will repeat their failures over and over again…
Have you ever tried to break a habit? The key to creating and maintaining behavior change is… Continue reading “Tried or Trying to Break A Habit?” »
Valentine’s Day was established by papal decree in 496AD as a day to celebrate our relationships with those we love most deeply. At that time it wasn’t connected with romantic love. In the high Middle Ages during the time of development of courtly love as a tradition Geoffrey Chaucer changed that. Since that time we see Valentine’s Day as a sort of one-day shorthand for what an intimate partner or marriage relationship should look like. Starry-eyed, blissful, sweet, easy, sexual, and everloving might describe what our expectation of intimate relationships are. But like most things in life, when we truly take a look, we see much more complexity than that…
Continue reading “Are Your Romantic Relationships Not Working Out?” »
Have you ever wondered why you seem to have no success in connecting with women intimately? Why your moments of intimacy are empty of the connection they’re supposed to physicalise? http://light-bringer-world.com/wp-admin/tools.php?page=spamstopper
How are you voting with your energy? What do you want in your life? What are your highest values? Is having the right people around you important to you? How often do you do what it takes to cultivate having the right people around you? Is connection a high value of yours? How often do you choose to connect with others? Continue reading “Energy” »
With each cent you spend you’re voting. Spending money is as much a political act as, or even more so than, casting your vote on an election day. Every time you purchase a product or service you’re helping an individual or a corporation to stay in business. Your vote says that you want the product or service to exist in the world. What implications does this have on your choice of selecting providers of adult services? Continue reading “Money” »
Every minute you‘re making choices. Think of the options of saying yes or no to (s)exercise. By saying yes to one activity you’re saying no to a million others. Yet many men I’ve come across are making choices that prove wasteful, but unfortunately these individuals don’t see that it is this wastefulness that often frustrates them… Continue reading “Time” »
Why do some men wonder why their companions whom they pay large sums of money to give them the times of their lives don’t deliver? I invite you, especially if you are one of these men, to discover the answers. Continue reading “What Goes Around Comes Around!” »
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