In this article I’ll tell you why so many people use the word mature outdatedly when they relate it purely to age. And why its well outdated usage is conventionalized so deeply that nobody questions it when surfing the net for a new friend. So if you’re now curious and want to be more mature about the concept of mature, … Read More
Reviews used to be good – when they started being posted. And they still can be good – in some industries. But not in that of high end companionship. Why? Hence why should men not waste time with reading reviews of elite companions? Read More
One of the most frequent objections I hear is that men don’t have the money to see their courtesans, mistresses, companions as often as they’d like – or can’t afford to see them at all. But this is not an insurmountable problem. And here is how to surmount it. Read More
It might sound a bit far fetched on first hearing. But it’s definitely true – and would make many a woman cringe. Having a companion or mistress is healthy for a man. Here’s why. Read More
One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who approach me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely end in a disaster because of their unrealistic expectations. Here I list the most common unrealistic expectations that I’ve come across. I do it so that if you have them you can work them out before hiring your next companion or “escort”. [Yes, in today’s world there certainly is a difference in the meaning of these two words]. Read More
If you regularly exercise – especially in busy gyms – in 3 sets of 12, 15, or 20 exercises, you’ll be familiar with your brain going off course while your body is going through the motions of the sequence. Somewhere you suddenly realize that you’ve lost count and are in a quandary about whether you’re on the 2nd or 3rd set! How can you prevent this? How can you concentrate solidly? Read More
Have you ever noticed that some people have your immediate respect while others do not? And have you observed that some people have great ideas but nothing happens with them? Do you know people who say they will do something but never do it? Do you say that you’ll do something while you’ve no intention of doing it? Or do you often say that you’ll do things out of politeness, but know that you never will do them? Read More
Be inspired by reading on if you live in the northern hemisphere. I say this, because in the southern one, while enjoying the height of summer, people have no reason to even dream of issues that this article discusses! This article also won’t interest you if you’re so motivated to achieve your new year’s resolutions that nothing will distract you on the way. But if you’re of those people whose motivation has plenty of room for strengthening, read on too. Read More
Change of behaviour is not merely a matter of knowledge or skill. If that were true, then all the information campaigns on how to improve your health would have made behavior-related illnesses a thing of the past. We would all be slim and rich and birth control information would prevent teen pregnancies. Sadly, many people fail to create lasting changes in their behaviours and will repeat their failures over and over again… Read More
Valentine’s Day was established by papal decree in 496AD as a day to celebrate our relationships with those we love most deeply. At that time it wasn’t connected with romantic love. In the high Middle Ages during the time of development of courtly love as a tradition Geoffrey Chaucer changed that. Since that time we see Valentine’s Day as a shorthand for what an intimate relationship or marriage should look like. Starry-eyed, blissful, sweet, easy, sexual, and everloving might describe our expectations of intimate relationships. But like most things in life, when we truly take a look, we see much more complexity…
Have you ever wondered why you seem to have no success in connecting with women intimately? Why your moments of intimacy are empty of the connection they’re supposed to physicalize? Or why you’re often in your moments of intimacy in the body, but not in the mind? Read More
How are you voting with your energy? What do you want in your life? Also, what are your highest values? Is having the right people around you important to you? Hence how often do you do what it takes to cultivate having the right people around you? Is connection a high value of yours? How often do you therefore choose to connect with others? Read More
With each coin of money you spend you’re voting. Spending money is as much a political act as, or even more so than, casting your vote on an election day. Every time you buy a product or service you’re helping an individual or a corporation to stay in business. Your vote says that you want the product or service to exist in the world. So what implications does this have on your choice of spending your money on companions and other entertainment? Read More
Every minute of your time on this planet you‘re making choices. Think of the options of saying yes or no to (s)exercise. By saying yes to one activity you’re saying no to a million others. Yet many men are making choices with their time that prove wasteful, but unfortunately these men don’t see that it is the wastefulness that often frustrates them. How can these men start using their time more wisely? Read More
Why do some men wonder why their companions whom they pay large sums of money to give them the times of their lives don’t deliver? I invite you, especially if you are one of these men, to discover the answers. Read More