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Coaching for men who visit adult entertainers Toronto – London UK

Most men pay for women [instead of coaching] because they have problems, blocks, or conflicts in their lives. They seek adult services to distract themselves from the problems and a deep void in them. Many men are painfully aware of their problems, but don’t know how to address them. Coaching would be the last thing on their minds.

Many men don’t know what they want in and from life. They want to escape the reality and therefore inadvertently keep undeserving adult “entertainers” [and their traffickers!] in business. After the millionth attempt to find pleasure they look at yet another website. They anticipate getting something wonderful at good value for money… and get bitter disappointment again. However, they’re lighter in cash, time, NRG and…

…the vicious circle goes on.

Most of these men communicate poorly, hence their problems, blocks, conflicts. And even the better communicators can certainly hardly talk about their problems to often dearly loved partners or friends if they’re single. Thus men often find themselves isolated with their problems which draws them to seek distractions. While there’s absolutely no social stigma about men having coaching, there might be tremendous stigma – perhaps also fear and embarrassment – about a man confessing to his coach that he visits adult “entertainers”!

Coaching for men – the best of both worlds?

Kay-Lauren as a personal development professional helps men realize that they can break the vicious circle and use their time, money, and energy better. Paying for women will not solve problems, nor teach men to live better. This upscale companion brings healing light into the voids in men by coaching them without stigma! Her coaching specialisation is in neuro-linguistic programming. NLP makes coaching richer, more powerful, and effective. That is because NLP uncovers patterns of physiology, language, thinking, and emotions that a coach without NLP training would not point out to the coached person.

All the above and more is within the value of coaching for men

– if you have the courage to go on this journey. Courage you will need, because coaching has made men cry, angry, frustrated, and opened many a can of worms… Additional value will be in how you’ll train yourself and others to support you in making changes for the better. And you will not be able to measure this value by the money you paid for coaching.

What will NLP coaching give men that traditional coaching won’t?

Specific points instead of generic theories. Both why things happen and how things happen. Hence an NLP coach will help you find out why you keep stuck in the old ways and create strategies to improve or change things. NLP adds the how. And that’s the greatest value, because people often know why it’d be good to stop doing something, but they don’t know how to start doing better things. And if one doesn’t know how to do something, he won’t do it.
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Coaching will benefit men who…
  • call around, talk to many adult service providers, but don't follow through
  • click around the net, start corresponding with women, and quit for no obvious reason
  • visit one adult service provider after another, but feel emptiness every time
  • realize you’re stuck in this pattern, but don't know what to do about it
  • find excitement in this vicious circle, but feel exhausted, unhappy, void
  • don’t know what you want – you just want to get away from the grim reality…
  • don’t know why you do this, you just do it
  • and don’t care who it is as long as it is…
  • know that you're not good at making requests of people
  • are not good at talking to women
  • don't know what you want from a woman, nor what to expect from an experience with a woman
How does coaching help men?

On the level of environment:

  • you can have coaching anywhere by phone or online
  • anytime across the time zones
  • not having to travel to me will save you time, money, NRG
  • you can have coaching in the comfort of wherever you wish to be
  • if you have coaching by phone, you won’t have the visual distractions of me. You can then express even the most sensitive thoughts without feeling immediate predicament caused by my physical presence
  • without visual distractions you can more clearly visualize your thoughts, strategies, and the discussed concepts. That will help you to extract and remember the learning from them.
  • what physical environments are you creating for yourself and others that contribute to your frustrated state, bad habits, and lack of joy in life?
  • how can you help yourself by making sometimes simple changes to your environment?
  • how does your perception of time influence what is and will be going on in your life?
  • and how does your past hold control of your present and future?


  • during coaching you’ll discover what you do that positively and negatively influences you most. And you can make changes.
  • you’ll discover the benefits of your negative behaviors. If there weren’t benefits, you wouldn’t do them.
  • as you learn the value of your positive and negative behaviors, you’ll understand how you can keep doing more of what works and replace the benefits of the negative behaviors with what what will work in the long term.


  • capability = skill. A skill is a behavior that you’ve repeated so many times that it has become automatic and you may not be aware of doing it. For example, managing money well and always being in debt are skills.
  • uncovering capabilities answers the question how?. How do you keep doing things that keep you unhealthy, joyless, frustrated, unhappy?
  • how can you communicate with yourself and others better through language?

...beliefs and values

  • what you believe you will achieve. And what you believe directs what you do. So what do you believe? Why?
  • how do your beliefs keep you stuck?
  • how could you reevaluate and learn from your beliefs?
  • and how could you honour and learn from past beliefs?
  • why do you do what and how you do?
  • what do you value?
  • what are your top three values?
  • why do you value that?


  • identity is who you are.
  • so who are you at this stage of life?
  • who do you (not) want to be?
  • who do you want to surround yourself by?
  • and who drains your energy? Whom would you like to get rid of from your life?
  • who would you like to be in 40 years? How will you get there? Will you?
  • and who will you become if you shed the bad habits you had for years and become a new person?
…and how does everything fit into the grand scheme of life?
  • how will others see and respect you when you start making changes?
  • will you have to make major changes in your environment, behaviour, capabilities, beliefs, values, and identity?
  • what will be the price of those changes?
  • how will all that impact your public image?
Coaching packages and cost

All coaching engagements cost the same as the rates listed here and start with a one-time 2-hour intake session.

STARTING PACKAGE: 16 weekly sessions of 30 minutes
....extendable to.....
LONG-TERM PACKAGE 1: 4 weekly sessions of 30 minutes
LONG-TERM PACKAGE 2: 2 sessions of 30 minutes per month
for 3, 6, 9, or 12 months
All fees will be accepted in advance in any of the listed currencies by cash or bank transfer.
Read about coaching and NLP

Beliefs: Pathways to Health & Wellbeing - R. Dilts, T. Hallbom, S. Smith
NLP & Health - I. McDermott & J. O'Connor
NLP & Relationships - I. McDermott & J. O'Connor
The 5 Love Languages - Gary Chapman
The Art of Systems Thinking - J. O'Connor & I. McDermott
The NLP Coach - I. McDermott & W. Jago
Your Inner Coach - I. McDermott & W. Jago