Your life energy is another resource with which you vote every minute. How do you vote with your energy? What do you want in life? Also, what are your highest values? Is having the right people around you important? Hence how often do you do what it takes to have the right people around you? Is connection your high value? How often do you therefore choose to connect with others?
Spending your life energy in the same way as you spend money
If you spend energy on something, you’re voting to have more of that in life. If you choose companions or “escorts” about whom you don’t feel absolutely right or even anything, you give them your vote to stay in business and continue spreading their malices. And what vote have you given to yourself? What mental environments do you create with how you spend your energy? Do you focus on peace, connection, fulfillment, gratitude? Or do you spend energy on indifference, impulsive instant gratification, bearing grudges, frustration, or boosting the ego?
You live with your energy all the life
Notice what your internal voice most often tells or shouts at you. Do you always expect an average treatment from companions, courtesans, “escorts”, the women you chase? Clinical blank attitude? Superficial “service” from another “escort“? The next one being the same as the one yesterday? Is there not much between them all? Creativity can certainly be a drawback if that is your indication – or if the social conditioning has left that imprint on you. You can live much of your life in a horror movie complete with special effects!
Or you can choose to spend your vital force (ojas) on…
creating positive states of mind, looking after yourself, and doing better things for you. Instead of chasing seedy “escorts” you can direct your energy to finding a companion of high class and intelligence who adds value and whom you can trust. Whenever you consider something, ask yourself ‘does it lead to happiness?’. When you are happy, you are more generous and loving to others. And others will be the same to you. So by tending to your thoughts and creating happiness you will serve the greater good to humanity as well. And if this seems more easily said than done, I can help you get it done as easily as it is said.