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Why Men Often Find a Disaster Instead of a Companion

Finding a companion can be as exhausting as and perhaps even more so than dating. This is because the prevailing attitude is that because you’re paying, you expect to get the perfect person and experience.  If the person and experience does not turn out to be perfect, isn’t that upsetting?  So how can you, the searching man, shorten the costly process of trial and error? And how can you learn to prevent getting it wrong more times than getting it right?   

When you go shopping

for any high cost item, such as a car, house, yacht, or jet, you won’t buy the first one you find without looking at the specs.  You’ll do thorough research and certainly question the salesman accordingly.  Yet why do men not apply the same principle to finding a companion for their special and intimate moments?   Companions can cost just as much as cars, houses, yachts, or jets in the long term.  And if a man buys items with specs that make the item right for him, why should he not apply the same principle to finding a companion?  Isn’t the interpersonal dynamics just as important, especially if a man wishes to get intimate with his companion?

Being a headless chicken can be dangerous

I often wonder how men can be courageous enough to make their choices based solely on instinctual impulse rather than on a combination of instinct and informed decision in this age of scams, conartistry, and ripoff worldwide in every industry – and especially in the one of companionship! If I were to look for any service, I’d definitely do thorough research on the service AND its providers.

I have observed that many men don’t pay attention to what women say about themselves in directory listings and on their websites. This lack of attention can be even more insidious, because if one doesn’t care about who he goes with, he can get into dangerous situations. After all, you don’t know who you’re about to engage with!  Is she an addict to something? Is she trafficked? Does she even know that her ad is on the listing where you saw it? Or has her pimp listed her without her knowledge? Do you REALLY want to finance human trafficking?

How can men break the vicious circle

of many men’s frustration in their hunt for the right companion?

  1. NEVER automatically assume [based on previous experiences] that every companion’s website has empty promises written all over it.  A handful are very informative and written with the essence of this article in mind!
  2. Always be present in the moment when you find a directory listing you like and your instinct tells you that this advertiser might be the one. Eliminate all distractions, sharpen your senses, focus on the listing, and read what’s written in its text once you’ve finished admiring the pictures. Then evaluate the information and start asking for additional information.
  3. Keep a scrapbook at hand and write things down. Visual information is the most reliable!

The benefit to you is that you’ll be able to choose exactly who and what you want and what and why you don’t. Happy searching!   Practise on my website – and let me know how you got on if you wish and dare!

 


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