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An Ad for Coaching Among Ads for Sex?

An ad for coaching among ads for sex? Why? And why not? Read More

Ayurveda and Why Your Partner Doesn’t Want Sex When You Do

Ayurveda, doshas, sex.  Well, dear reader, as far as I know no one has brought light to the man of this world on this subject in writing so far. I’m not the light bringer to the world for nothing! So as I always live up to the name, I decided to be the first to write about how Ayurveda explains why your partner never or rarely wants sex when you do! I guarantee you that after reading this you will understand yourself and your partner much better!

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To Men Who Seek Deep Connection With Women Online

November 1, 2023  |  Coaching for Men

Men who seek deep connection go online. They’re willing to spend years of time, money, energy on finding it. But when one out of a million women finally offers the opportunity to create a deep connection, many men don’t want it. How is this contradiction possible? Read More

Massage for Sleep

Massage is brilliant for good sleep. Why? I’ll tell you in this short article which was born thanks to a conversation with a man who has been getting massage from me for years. Bless his heart and I thank him for the loyalty and inspiration! I wrote that conversations are important for a reason. But that’s another article. This one is for all the corporate men who work hard, are perpetually in the fast lane, and may have bad sleep from all the beating of the corporate world. Read More

How Married Men Can Get Intimacy Into Marriage Again

May 1, 2023  |  Coaching for Men

How to get intimacy into marriage? This will interest all married or partnered men who haven’t been intimate with their dear wives or partners for years and don’t know how to bring intimacy into the marriage or partnership again even if they dearly love the ladies of their lives. Married men who most likely “solve” the problem by paying a lot of time, money, and energy to prostitutes who don’t give them intimacy either while the men could pay that time, money, and energy to rekindling the magic with the loves of their lives. The intimately frustrated married man for long years knows well that the adult industry doesn’t solve his problem and may even have learnt this fact the hard way before he came to my website! Read More

Why the Adult Industry Doesn’t Fulfil Its Role in the Society

Why does the adult industry not fulfil its role in the society? How is it possible that the adult industry which turns billions a year worldwide leaves so much sexual deprivation, violence, and harassment worldwide? How can it be that men seem to be more deprived of sex than ever at the time of the biggest adult industry it has ever been and at the age of extreme sexual liberation? Or has it always been the case, but we now hear more of it? This paradox doesn’t make sense… Or does it if we look closer? Read More

Do My Roles As a Companion, Massage and Aromatherapist, and Men’s Coach Conflict?

There are men who see my three roles of a companion, massage therapist, and coach as conflicting or contradicting instead of a holistic package. Those men don’t look beneath the surface. Here’s why these roles are absolutely not conflicting and happily cohabit in a beautiful package which holistically looks after the professional man working in the corporate and business world. Read More

The Value of Coaching for Men Who Visit Adult Entertainers

August 1, 2022  |  Coaching for Men

Why is the value of coaching for men who visit adult entertainers so high? And why is it impossible to quantify by a precise figure? Because it is intangible, yet so very tangible in these men’s lives! As value is intangible, it is not easy to grasp. But I’ll do my best to help you do so here… Read More

Why I Ask Men Many Questions at the Beginning of Our Acquaintance

Because nobody does and because asking questions is important for the benefit of the men who see me. Why are many men shocked and suspicious when I ask many questions at the beginning of our acquaintance? Read More

See Courtesans for Celebration, Not Out of Desperation

February 1, 2022  |  Coaching for Men

Why should men see courtesans for celebration? Men who see courtesans usually expect to be intimate with them.  Yet why do 99% of men call for intimacy when they break up with partners, are frustrated, despondent, or angry with a circumstance? Read More

Why I Do Not Communicate With Strangers by Text Messages

The society will continue to go digital. People buy even human connection digitally nowadays. And will continue to do so even more. But isn’t it ironic? That people want to connect with other human beings, yet don’t even want to speak to them before they buy them? Here’s why I’ll always want to do things soul to soul. Why I don’t communicate with strangers by text messages. Read More

Why Conversations With Your Companion or Masseuse Are Important

Conversations are at the centre of a man’s satisfaction on a date with a companion. They are also at the centre of satisfying regular massages. And they are intimacy. But how many men and women who allegedly buy and sell connection and intimacy have conversations? Why are conversations important for both parties? Read More

Why I Charge the Rates I Charge and Why They Are Excellent Value

Why I charge what I charge is a number of reasons that some people do not see.  And I’ll also tell you why my rates are of excellent value because there will always be men who don’t see the value. Of course, in a world where everything is so expensive and prices rise we all want the best for the least. That’s human nature. When someone objects to one’s rates, the lazy way – usually driven by fear of losing them – is to discount. Another reason is that most people don’t know their value and thus don’t know how to justify their value to an objecting person. I know both. Hence here’s why I charge what I charge and why my rates are of excellent value.

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Why I Don’t Send Pictures of Me Nor Allow Anyone to Copy Them

Many people from strangers to yearslong friends ask me to send them pictures of me. I never do. Here’s why. Read More

The Most Frequent Mistakes of Massage Therapists

What are the most frequent mistakes that massage therapists make? Why is it good for men who go for massages to know them? How will you be able to quickly spot whether a massage therapist is good or fake?

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How I Create the Pictures That You See of Me Online

While most women who usually sell different things from what I sell have pictures on their sites from one room in one outfit in several poses, I’m proud to have differentiated myself on this point from the start. But how much effort goes into the pictures that you see on my site?

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How Can Men Always Have Enough Time for Pleasures?

May 1, 2020  |  Coaching for Men

Time, money, and energy are our most valuable resources. I have written how men can always have enough money for their pleasures. So doesn’t it make sense to enrich the subject by writing about how men can always have enough time for their pleasures?

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Discretion

Discretion: every man who sees companions, courtesans, or has a mistress wants it. Even men who go for genuine massages want discretion! And many women promise it. But how does discretion reflect itself in the small details that men and women play out in daily lives and communications? Are people really as discreet as they think they are? What innocent acts can easily betray discretion? You may well be surprised at what useful pearls you will pick up from this article.

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Before You Hire a Companion for International Travel…

Getting a companion for international travel needs consideration. It is marvellous for your pleasure and convenience, but…. You should definitely consider these things before you hire a companion for international travel to or with you: Read More

Mature Before Middleaged?

Why do so many people use the word mature  outdatedly when they relate it purely to age? Especially in the context of sorting companions, courtesans, models, escorts, and women in other roles by age? And why is its outdated usage conventionalized so deeply that nobody questions it when surfing the net for a companion or a woman in another role?  Well, if you’re now curious and want to be more mature about being mature, …  Read More

The Pros and Cons of Massage Tables

The pros and cons of massage tables – do you know them? If you’re a seasoned recipient of massage, you may prefer getting it on a massage table – or not. If you’re a man who stumbled across my blog and immersed himself in its pearls of wisdom, I’ll tell you the pros and cons of massage tables. And which option you’d get if you came for a massage to me.  Read More

Independent Massage or Massage Clinics / Parlours – Which Is Better?

Gentlemen, why is it better to go to an independent masseuse than a massage clinic or parlour if you want a real massage of quality? Read More

Why Men Shouldn’t Take Reviews of Companions and Women Online Seriously

Reviews used to be good – when people started posting them. And they still can be good – in some industries. But not in that of high end companionship. Hence why should men not waste time with reading reviews of elite companions? And definitely not post any of me? Read More

How Can Men Always Have Enough Money for Pleasures?

August 1, 2018  |  Coaching for Men

One of the most frequent objections I hear is that men don’t have enough money to see companions courtesans, mistresses, as often as they’d like – or can’t afford pleasures at all.  But this is not an insurmountable problem. Here is how to surmount it. Read More

Why Having a Companion or Mistress is Healthy for a Man

May 1, 2018  |  Coaching for Men

It might sound far fetched on first hearing. But it’s definitely true – and would make many a woman want to kill me.  Having a companion or mistress is healthy for a man. Here’s why.  Read More

Why High Class Is Commercial Hype

…and hasn’t been for a long time. Where has high class gone? Why? How does a man looking for a courtesan tell who really is of high class? After all, everyone seems to claim to be… Read More

Why Aromatherapy Works

In conversations about why aromatherapy works I often hear that people don’t trust aromatherapy to cure their conditions more than they trust pharmaceutical medicines. One conversation about the potency of aromatherapy with a longtime loyal recipient of my massages inspired me to share why aromatherapy works and always will work.  So here it is:  Read More

Did You See My Details in a Directory Listing?

Did you find a link to my site in a directory listing? Or better still, did you find my site on a search engine and not in a directory listing? Then I invite you to bear the following in mind:  Read More

Aromatherapy for the Corporate Man

Corporate life has taken and will continue to take it out of many a man. Aromatherapy – the application of blends of essential oils – is an easily available ecological, gentler than drugs, immensely effective, and (considering that you need very small amounts) inexpensive solution to keeping a man healthy and productive in the corporate world.  If this solution appeals to you, try the tips from here that resonate with you for the next few months.  You’ll certainly feel the difference and may even become an inspiration to colleagues who eternally swallow pills! Read More

To All Men Who Don’t Like Paying for Companionship

February 1, 2017  |  Coaching for Men

Most men want to spend their finer moments with intelligent, smart, sophisticated companions with perfect bodies, flawless manners, immaculate presentation, bulletproof discretion, and integrity. But many men wince at  paying for the privilege.  These men argue that paying for companionship makes them feel uncomfortable.  Well, these men don’t know how else they could think about paying for companionship.  So I wrote this article to show them why paying for companionship can be a good act. Read More

Cultural Differences in Men’s Understanding of Companionship

Different folks, different strokes. Men who travel a lot or live abroad know this adage well.  It applies to every aspect of life. And high end companionship is no exception.  How do men from different cultures understand the concept of high end companionship? How do cultural differences reflect in men’s understanding of high end companionship? Read More

Would You Sleep Without Me?

Would you sleep without me?  Sleeping with me would keep you awake!  And keeping awake is what people in today’s at least western society certainly do way too much of – to the cost of their health, productivity, and quality of life.  Do you sleep enough? Or nowhere near enough?

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Unrealistic Expectations of Men Who See Companions

November 1, 2015  |  Coaching for Men

One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who call or write to me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely capsize because of their unrealistic expectations. The light bringer doesn’t take people’s money and turn it into bad memories! Here are the most common unrealistic expectations that men have. I share them so that if you have them you can work them out before hiring your next companion or another type of woman. [Yes, in today’s world one must certainly be clean about the role for which he looks. Hence I stress the difference between a companion and another type of woman.]. Read More

When Not to Have Massage

Although massage is generally enormously beneficial and certainly a great pleasure when done well, there are occasions when you should not have it.  What are those occasions?  Read More

Tips for Guys Who Exercise

If you regularly exercise – especially in busy gyms – in 3 sets of 12, 15, or 20 repetitions of exercises, you’ll be familiar with your brain going off course while the body goes through the sequences. Somewhere you suddenly realize that you’ve lost count and are in a quandary about whether you’re on the second or third set!  How can you solidly concentrate to prevent that? Read More

Not Being Artificial Will Earn You Respect

August 1, 2014  |  Coaching for Men

Have you ever noticed that you immediately respect some people while you do not respect others in a lifetime? Do you know people who say that they will do something but never do it? And do you say that you’ll do something while you have no intention of doing it? Or do you often say things out of politeness, but never mean them? Read More

New Year’s Resolutions From 1 February?

February 1, 2014  |  Coaching for Men

Be inspired by reading this if you live in the northern hemisphere. I say this, because while enjoying the height of summer in the southern one, people have no reason to even dream of issues that this article discusses! This article also won’t interest you if you’re so motivated to achieve your new year’s resolutions that nothing will distract you on the way.  But if you’re one of those people whose motivation has plenty of room for strengthening, read on too. Read More

Tried or Trying to Break Bad Habits?

November 1, 2013  |  Coaching for Men

To break bad habits is not merely a matter of knowledge or skill.  If it was, then all information campaigns on how to improve health would have made illnesses a thing of the past.  We would all be slim and rich and teenage girls would not get pregnant.  Sadly, many people do not create lasting changes and repeat their failures again and again.Why? How? Read More

When Intimate Relationships Don’t Work…

August 1, 2013  |  Coaching for Men

Intimate relationships can be a source of the greatest joy or pain. Valentine’s Day was established by papal decree in 496AD as a day to celebrate our intimate relationships with those we love most deeply. At that time it wasn’t connected with romantic love. Geoffrey Chaucer changed that in the high Middle Ages during the time of development of courtly love as a tradition. Since that time we see Valentine’s Day as a shorthand for what intimate relationships or marriage should look like.  Starry-eyed, blissful, sweet, easy, sexual, and everloving might describe our expectations of intimate relationships. But like most things in life, when we truly take a look, we see much more complexity…

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Don’t Feed High End Companions’ Greed!

Why do high end companions have a reputation for being greedy?  How do their clients feed the greed?  Read More

Why Giving to Yourself Is Important

How are we redefining giving in our prosperous world?  What makes us rethink our forms of giving when we have it so good in life?  Why do so many successful men leave giving to themselves till who knows when? Read More

Does It Pay to Be Honest With and About Money?

Does it pay to be honest with and about money?  If it does, does it pay more than it would if one weren’t honest?  Is it stupid to be honest in situations which give the option not to be honest with money?  Will the last 2 paragraphs of this article give you a valuable insight?  What would you do in a situation like the one described here? Read More

O Canada…

Albeit many people have told me that they wouldn’t live in the States even if one paid them, I’ve never heard anyone say anything bad about Canada – yet.  So why is Canada enjoying such a lovable status?  Why will the Canadian nationality have immense value in future?   Read More

Why Many Men Don’t Know How to Enjoy Intimacy

May 1, 2012  |  Coaching for Men

Why do so many men buy sex? Why do so many even very young men not have success in matters of intimacy?  And why do many successful and even happily married men not know how to be intimate? Read More

Identity Fraud in High End Companionship

Crime leaves no industry unaffected, but if one's attuned to the environment, it can be detected and stopped.

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A Tale of Two Cities: Toronto – London UK

What are the differences between living in Toronto and London UK? How does a high end companion who lives alternately in Toronto and London UK compare life in them?  If you’re travel curious, here’s a limited account.  Reading this tale of two cities will be much lighter than that of Dickens! Read More

Aromatherapy for Animal Owners

How can animal owners use aromatherapy to ward off everyday unpleasant aftermaths of the animal world? Here are four tips:   Read More

Drinking – Sensible Guidance for Every Man

Drinking water will certainly make any man sexier and healthier than drinking caffeine, sugar, chemicals, and alcohol. But drinking water doesn’t come easily to many men. Why? Is there any wonder since there’s so much confusing information on this subject? I do not want my articles to contribute to the confusion. I draw knowledge from the first science of life which has given rise to all sciences and been with us for thousands of years. As I like the reliable, I give the reliable. So…
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Drinking Water, Men, Sexappeal

In my other article on this subject I outlined why drinking water is immensely important for good health, productivity, and even sexual function, and why so many men don’t drink water correctly or at all.  The immediate pragmatic question is how to drink water correctly. And another one is why an article on the website of a holistic independent companion, masseuse, and coach for men should have the most correct answers in the world when there’s so much information from far more reputable sources in the world.  Well, the answers in this article make solid common sense and have roots in ancient medical teachings that have healed civilisations for thousands of years and are gaining popularity in the West again.   Read More

Benefits of Massage That Are Much Less Obvious

The obvious benefits of the beautiful art and science of massage are all over the internet. The four not obvious benefits of massage are here.  Read More

How Can Men Use Aromatherapy at Home?

Are you one of many men who live alone? Or even if you do not live alone, do you look for ecological ways to keep the home clean and pleasant? These ways of using aromatherapy at home for men will certainly make your life healthier and more pleasant whether you live alone or with others:

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Energy – Do You Have Enough?

August 1, 2009  |  Coaching for Men

Your life energy is another resource with which you vote every minute. How do you vote with your energy?  What do you want in life?  Also, what are your highest values?  Is having the right people around you important?  Hence how often do you do what it takes to have the right people around you?  Is connection your high value?  How often do you therefore choose to connect with others? Read More

Money

May 1, 2009  |  Coaching for Men

Money, men, courtesans… You vote with each coin that you spend.  Spending money is as much a political act as, or even more so than, casting your vote on an election day.  Every time you buy a product or service you help an individual or a corporation to stay in business.  Your vote says that you want the product or service to exist in the world. So what implications does this have on your choice of spending your notes and coins on companions and other entertainment? Read More

Time

February 1, 2009  |  Coaching for Men

Time is the most precious resource as it cannot be replaced.  You‘re making choices every minute of your time on this planet.  Think of the options of saying yes or no to (s)exercise. By saying yes to one activity you say no to a million others.  Yet many men make wasteful choices with their time. But unfortunately these men don’t see that it is the wastefulness that often frustrates them. How can any man start using time more wisely? Read More

Passive in Intimacy When You Pay for It?

November 1, 2008  |  Coaching for Men

Being passive in intimacy when you pay for it is a bad idea. Why? And why do some men wonder why the women whom they pay don’t deliver quality intimacy either?  I invite you to discover the answers. Read More

Mistakes That Men Make When Selecting a Companion

What are the most frequent critical mistakes that men can avoid when selecting a companion? Read More

For All Intimately Frustrated Men

May 1, 2008  |  Coaching for Men
Being intimately frustrated is certainly not an accident. It happens because some things that men do and don’t do make it so. Men may think that the reason why they are intimately frustrated is rather straightforward. But in most cases it is not. After all, intimate frustration accumulates due to a combination of factors. And one can certainly influence a lot of them.  So how can intimately frustrated men get the body and mind to live in harmony? How can they be intimate fulfilled? Here’re some handy ways:

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Neck and Shoulder Self-massage

If you sit in cars or at desks for long periods of time, this quick simple neck and shoulder self-massage will relieve the creeping tension and tight painful muscles. And the relief will certainly make you fresh and productive for longer.  So I invite you to learn it here! Read More

Find a Companion – Read the Ads

To find a companion can be as exhausting as dating, and perhaps even more so. This is because the prevailing attitude is that because a man pays, he expects to get the perfect person and experience on demand.  That’s how it should be. But the industry is full of the exact opposite. If the person and experience do not turn out to be perfect, isn’t that upsetting?  So how can a man who wants to find a companion shorten the costly process of trial and error? And how can he prevent getting it wrong in today’s world of false claims and scams?   Read More

How Can Men Improve the Quality of Their Intimate Life?

If men need to improve their intimate life, it’s clear feedback that reflects something they’ve been doing to this moment.  The quality of a man’s intimate life won’t improve unless he does something to improve it.  Placing the responsibility of improving it on others won’t get any man anywhere either. So no excuse – one has to work to reap rewards.  Here’re 19 ways to do so.  Your doctor won’t tell you them and they don’t cost anything. So try them – you’ll lose nothing and gain plenty! Read More

Massage or Commercial Sex?

Most men who respond to massage ads respond to ads for sex.  It is unfortunately so in 95% of cases, which makes the work of real massage therapists harder. Many men think that artificial sex with strangers is more rewarding than well done massage because those men don’t know, therefore cannot appreciate the importance and benefits of real massage. This may be due to social conditioning and the impact of the euphemism for unrelated activities that the word massage has become. So here are the tremendous benefits and unassuming, understated, powerful intimacy of the beautiful art of massage. Read More

Which Massage Should a Man Choose? Types of Massage Treatments Explained

When a man beaten by the demands of corporate, business, and family life looks for a relaxing massage which isn’t prostitution in disguise, how does he know which type to choose before researching massage ads? Read More