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3 Critical Mistakes That Men Make When Selecting a Companion

Why do many men’s impulse choices of companion or adult entertainer bite them in the neck?  Here’s a succinct account of the most frequent critical mistakes that men can avoid when selecting a companion. 

1. They don’t care who they go with.  

Impatience, desperation, frustration, exhaustion, resignation, long-term suppression of pleasures, or various combinations thereof can drive this one.  Hence when the urges hit and they’re alone, these men want a babe to fall into their laps right away.  So they surf, dial several numbers, and wait to see who responds…  Have you been there?  It’s human nature, right?  The danger of this approach is that it will attract an equally impulsive companion who will only care about the cash and treat these men exactly as they deserve to be treated.  Hence the vicious circle is: men pay huge amounts for an awkward shallow soulless clinical restrictive cold harsh atmosphere, pregnant pauses, meaningless moves, and faking of pleasure to inflate their egos.  [Hmmm, really?] Then these men get frustrated and later repeat the process…  

Years go by, cutting the precious time these men have on the planet…  How is that fun? Wouldn’t finding the right companion who had all the traits of your dreams be more fun?  Besides, if a man calls me and doesn’t even know who he’s talking to, where he saw my number, what subtle message is he giving?  If he doesn’t care who he goes with, why should I care about him? The message he gives off is subtle, but powerful and downright disrespectful. Does the fact that he’s paying entitle him to disrespect? If it does, will disrespect breed respect?

2, They don’t do their research.

Many men don’t even remember where they see the details of the women they call.  Again, impulse-driven human nature.  Who cares about research?  They want to have fun right now – often also in a state altered by alcohol, drugs, or both. And that state is certainly not conducive to research.  But if you don’t do your research, how do you know what you’re signing up for?  Associating with the wrong person could have tragic – in the worst cases even literally lethal – consequences for your health, career, family, or life…  

Another benefit of doing your research on the companion whose pictures you liked in an ad is that you know what you can and can’t expect from the woman you’re about to get the connection that you’re buying from.  You know what she will and won’t give you for your money.  And you know you won’t be placing her in an awkward position by requesting things outside her level of comfort.  

Plus you’ll come across as much more respectful in her eyes if you show that you’ve made an informed choice about her!  As with anything in life, prior planning prevents poor performance.  Investing a few minutes in research on the pretty woman in the pretty picture that has caught your eye will pay you higher dividends than will be the amount you lose on her fee. I also recommend that you read this article – its gist is related to this topic

3. They don’t know what they want.

This one may sound crazy, yet is the most common.  Even men who do care who they want to go with and do their research often do not know what they want from their companion and even why they’re looking for one.  Think about it: do you have clear criteria of selecting your companion? Do you know what you want from this person and from your relationship with her?

What’s your goal of wanting to engage with a companion or other woman? To feed your ego? To blunt the emptiness in your life from which you can’t run away? Perhaps to deflect your anger at something that happened earlier? To prove to yourself that money can buy you pretty babes who will dance to your whistle? Or to celebrate life and its finer moments? Or even to have a stable consistent companion / perhaps lover / friend whom you can entrust things that your family and friends shouldn’t hear? What do you want her to do and be for you?  Get this clear in your head – perhaps even on paper – and your search will become much more focused.

I’ve written this article mainly 

for the low rungs of the industry as that’s where men who makes these critical mistakes congregate most prolifically. But there’s plenty of room for improvement in the high rungs too.  If all men who are in my circle of friends and followers can have been selective about who they wish to invest in, so can you – if you’re one of those men who needs to learn this lesson of being selective at this time in his life.

The added benefit of caring, doing your research, and knowing what you want is that your prospective companion or fun partner will view you as an intelligent being worthy of her time and NRG. Hence your relationship will begin on good footing.  And you should do all three things! After all, aren’t you buying some connection which should be far more intimate than are all other connections with all other people in your life?

I’m happy to help you get clear about what you want, why you should care who you go with, and how to do your research before you go with them.  

 


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